love
there are two ways to be successful in love..
1. either achieve the love of the one you want
2. or learn to love the one who loves you
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this is truly said according to me…
but i want to modify this…
let other people comment on it… then i will post the modified one..
why are we so eager to talk about love..??
does love brings in smile on your face??
does it feel intimate when one shares their love with us??
is there anyway we can manifest love in form of words..??
or its just a feeling………
a sense of being felt!!
does our ”i” clashes with ”other” n we choose to be single ??
can love happens without clashes?
it can happen without clashes…
but the charm of a pure love is lost.. if everything goes as planned …
a avoidable clash can bring the lovers really close to each other..
there are many ways u can be succesful in love………
the one u gave re awwww…
thats ok…
nothing to cool abt it…..
sab ko pata hai wo………
kuch naya……….
bas.. feel karo….
achieve kar ke kuch ni milega……..
:p
i didnt get you actually…
u just asked me question can love happen without clashes and i gave a simple and beatiful answer to your query..
is that experiencing saying……….??
wo hum two two baatein ek saath kar re hai………
jo 2nd time likha hai, thats reply to ur quote buddy….
yes true u gave a beautiful reply…….
some people would have never fallen in love, if they had never heard of it..!!!!
keep ur ears clean………..
if u wanna fall in love..!!
its not about experience ma’am…
i just said.. what the truth is…
acha temme..
if you dont find love you want or you are unable to achieve it .. are you ready to accept the one who loves you, who u dont like..
people dont fall in love by hearing someone.. its just that..
love happens just like that…
u dont someone.. to pour a good/bad knowledge about love in your ears.. when u find someone..you want.. you will fall in love with him/her
Love is like magic
And it always will be…there s nothing like being “successful” in love..u don’t judge it,its being successful in a relationship..i think
Love is more than a feeling;
it’s a state of mind.
sir u didn;t get wat i said, wen i mean…
people would not have fallen in love…………….
how did it came into being??
who coined it??
love could be called as something else too… why ”love”
agar koi batane waala na hota… toh aadho ko pata ni chalta kya hai wo ehsaas… aur shayad uski value…….
yea rite astha@astha
see…
kisi ke batane se value nahi hui..
it existed before the name was coined and too with the same feeling…
it was pure and eternal…
its just about how much comforted u feel in the company of your partner..
one of the psychologist said,” give me 12 healthy infant, i’ll make themm what i want them to be”
did u get it??
we know it is named love.. so we call it..
embracing, hugging, blah …. are gestures of love…..
nae pata hota, toh isse kuch aur bhe keh sakte the…..
we are told, thats how love happens, or is defined with,..!!
its all linguistics that comes in…………
feel tak thik hai..
wo feel ka matlab bhe toh ye words batate hai…………..
i have started to agree with you.. but still i want to know.. if the realtion would have been undefined then would these feelings have still been persisted ??
ur first point
“either achieve the love of the one you want”
i think love is sacrifice and not achievement…
yes…. feeings wud have been persisted…. a baby doesn’t know how to speak, but feel the world in his tiny heart!!
but we not have categorized them as love… we have been in a constant struggle to look out meaning toour reactions…..
unless, there deprivation, u can not value abundance..!!
@anand sometimes in love u need to be selfish..
my point was that.. if u like /love someone.. try to achieve the love of that person…
aleyy….
if sum1 luvs u….n u dnt lyk tht prsn..
thn…
sum day or d other…
u’ll have some respect fr tht prsn..!!
n u’ll admire thm..!!!!
its realli true..!!!!
@ astha.
but what about couple… ? cant just feelings persist between them..
why do we have to give always a name to a relation.. ?
love is d biggest war..!!!
u must always try to achieve d one u love..!!!!
tht’s d true meaning of love..!!!
if u jst went…said I LOVE YOU….c accepted…
thn..
itna maza nhi aata..!!!
bt..
if u spend sometime ( nt much han…)….pass thru sum obstacle….n thn achieve her..
thn…it feels realli grt..!!!
you may not always b able 2 gain the love of ur love but u cn always try!
yup..
no1 cn stop u frm trying yaaar…!!!
love is not about trying dude
dear…
m sayin..
to try to achieve sum1 u love…
its nt always tht d gal has sum prob wid d guy..
bt dere r mny other rsns fr wic c cnt accept a guy…
soo..
a guy must try n overcome those obstacles..!!!!
love does brng out smiles on our face…!!!!
y only consider….d b/f g/f wala love….
dere r mny other form of love too…
well….dere r nt enuf words to describe d beautiful feeling of love..!!!
love is feeling..tht 1 cn only feel..!!!! d mre u try to get rid of it…d more u r deeply struct wid it…
ma’am..
love does happens widout clashes too..!!!!
ya i agree with u gaurav on that…
i think one should realize the shortcomings and correct them as soon as possible..
thank you gaurav… i was just trying to explain astha the same things since this discussion started..
yuppie..!!!!!
love is great…….!!!!
nytym sir…!!!!
love is not gr8.. the feeling it posses is great…
the experience one gets is gr8..
the life one lives with a true love is gr8
in short..
its love wic brngs all dis grtness within 1..!!!!
love itself is a feeling..!!!
d strongest feeling within 1….wic evry human being posses within thmslf..
dey jst need to explore it out..!!!!
love transforms 1′s lyf completely..!!!
nthn remains d same though u nvr find nythng chngd..!!!
ahem…
thanks people, for concerning the slight moments i mentioned..
my aim was not to locate any answer..
but to see you people respond…
if i could make you think..
make u realise ur own space, private space n than gradually thoughts will flow…
life is a thought..!
thats wat my endeavour was..
everyone is correct…..
no is wrong..
love is, wat all u cann feel.. from jealously to care to passion…….
thanks for ur sincere comments….
they re always welcomed…
and arguin is not alwys necessary…
let’s all leave this imprint, a fragrance of love that i could make u feel in ur busy schedule..!!
a good lesson to teach at the end…
thanks astha..
love is pure
love is life..
love is eternal
love is blind..
love is you
love is me
love is forever…
“our world is in our brain”
its nothing to do with anybody, everything is wat u think about that. even love is like that
its different for different all of us, for some its beauty, for some its care and for others its the matter of understanding.. and so on..
we are not arguing but just putting our view over it.
agreed mr anand… u are rite…everyone sees love from his/her own perspective…
thats why it is pure.. free from all the shackles of the world…
@pallavi
par yar true love hota kaha hai..
aaj kal to sab tym pass hai..
people fall in love in first sight when they see a gud luking person, next day they fall in love with other gud luking person and the other day the are in love with the third person and so on..
will you call this true love..
you forget the person whom you loved soo much as soon as you find new one or u get away from him/her.. is it true love..??
yar true love sirf fimly hai, nuthing in real..
@abhishek.bindal
bhai par aab i dont think its pure..
sab ko love mean sex lagta hai..
thats all..
u are misinterpreting it…
its not filmy
the feeling you talked about.. in an answer to pallavi is called infatuation….
these things remain also when we find true love…
as these desires are natural…
when you look up to a girl.. who get infatuated towards her… u cannot say that u fell in love with her..
and wat does that mean when we keep on saying “baby i love you” jab dekho tab, mostly sab ko jo bhi aapne ko aache lagte hai..
is that something else or the love..
by the way why every one is fighting to convince everybody that their definition to love is correct…??? love is a feeling and it can vary from person to person…. we should just feel it n admire others experiences as well.. what’s the need to mark on a particular definition buddy???
thats not pure love..
this is love full of sexual desires…
this is not the love we were discussing about..this is something shit.. these desires has crept up in an individual minds like hell..
but we can mix these desires with love..
can understand..
i got the point…
the way u love you family is the true love i can say..
but cant say or kisi ko bhi tum us way me love kar sakte ho..
are koi hai yaha jo “saccha pyaar” karta ho kisi se??????
@aarti
we are not imposing our view over others..
we are just trying to understand wat it is acutally..
coz me to alys confusion me he raha hu is topic ko le kar..
and still it seems to be endless
@arti
well said..
i am just trying to find out.. what people think about love..
why is the topic getting so so agsressive..??
its okah…..
can we all keep calm..
n maintain a surrounding that counts only for love that means, ”SMILE”.. ;”BLUSH”……
NOTHING MORE THAN that for now………
think like this…
it will cool ur all mind..
after being felt the aroma of it, comment..
gud 1!!!!
ya it is smile coz we do vo sab bhi jo hum karna nai chahhate haste haste..
u know wat, the person whom we love, mostly misuse our love n care for his/her benifit..
its really hard to be in love from both sides..
aisa ni hai boss…
i agree its difficult to find.. love..
thats why i wrote in the quote.. try to love the one who loves you..
often we ignore the person who loves us and run after the one who ignores us…
@ aarti: its not abt definiton……
its more than that..!
for now……
no disputes…
all respected with eliteness….
think n imagine calmness……
aroma thats soothing…….
arre yaar….
can u people be calm enough to introspect..!!!!
for now can we talk nice..
atleast try..!!!!!
its the human nature..
we are not satisfied of wat we have..
“ghar ke murgi dal barabar”
hum ko vo he chyea jo hum ko nai mil sakta..
but yar easa nai ho sakta, vo hum ko mil jaye.. or jo hum ko like karte ho us ko bhi koi or lyk karta he hoga, us ko vo mil jaye.. fir to sare problems he solve ho ja ye ge..
but if dere is no aggression no clashes den again d charm of love is lost so
keep being aggressive,
keep fightin,
keep breakin up,
keep patching up,
n keep loving,
if all the problems wud have been solved
why wud this have been said
pyar ek paheli hai…
“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.”
wats d difference between luv n cruch????????
@abhishek.bindal
love is not a “paheli” us ko easa bana diya hai..
day by day its modifying…
can anybody tell me who has learnt the meaning of love here in this discussion? why we are fighting guys?
now no comments from me here on..!!
pyaar ki bhook.. chair ki bhook.. khaane ki bhook!!
uff.. kisi din waratt nae rakh sakte kya????????
disappointing..!!
@aarti
love is natural phenomena, a strong positive emotion of regard and affection towards anybody which frees us of all the weight and pain of life, through it we bless and are blessed, its like a good luck. Sometimes it is stronger than a our convictions. Love is Master Key to Happiness. it makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place. Love is an act of endless forgiveness
It has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale. It is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence. Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. Its a part of our life. Love is Love!
“To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you’re getting this down.”
- Woody Allen,
lets do one thing other then fighting over this.
we should describe love as per our point of view in just one short sentence.
I dont agree with this quote, what i feel is out of both the options provided second one can better define love to someone at least to me. Bcoz If u really liked someone There is always a chance that the person whom u loved might not love u as much as u loved him/her. Bt if u get someone’s love that can be the most precious gift for u and its upon u how better u make ur partner realise that how much u love him/her. “Lovers don’t really need to ‘give and take.’ For once you give you should not expect anything in return.”
very well said..
i agree, its not about taking or giving but its about just loving..
love is love and its really hard to define..
and ya this is really hard to find…
@ anand … very well writen…
its true in every sense
are u so sure……..
you donno need anything back?????
expectance is inevitable…….
anyways….
nice to hear so much!!
it brings jitter what if someone turn up their swords to start other explaining meaning of love… hahha..
keep going..!!
i agree with astha…
at one point you start expecting.. its human nature.. no one can regret it..
ahem..
thanks abhishek u paid heed to what i said..!!
ya sure..
never want anything..
i will be doing all that wat she will like..
ha wish bhout sare ho ge ke she will also do the same but agar nai bhi karagi to bhi chalega..
i will go for this funda..
If you love someone, set her free, if she comes back, she is yours, if she don`t, she never was …
ok boss..!!
than search one…
i would wish to see u happy!!
whichever way u think u can be..!!
me ne to bhout pasand ke, or sab ko jane diya, but aabhi tak koi vapas nai aaye..
sayad she was not for me..
this quote looks only good in films…
there is a difference between reel life and real life…
nai hai bhai, no difference at all..
even ye film wale bhi to take idea from real life and make the movie..
well,i think i will agree with the second quote.its not always possible to get the love from the one u love but can surely make an effort to love the one who loves you.
hmmm….
but the we have to give up our desires in this case..
and forefully do the thing which we dont want to..
you cant make yourself to love anyone.
this feeling is not controlled by ur brain. you either compromise your happiness for the person who loves you or you had a hard time adjusting with him/her.
one sided love in relations cant go for long time.
its not about doing something forcefully… its about accepting something as it comes…u cannot always expect things to be in your favour… @abhishek.bindal
why do we have to compromise with our happiness…???cant we stay happy with the person who loves us….???@anand
we can stay happy until our desires n wants are satisfied…
its human nature…
if we can attain that…i mean we remain satisfied with what we get.. the world will not grow.. and no will be able to find a love , which he/she wants , for himself/herself…
according to me.. a thirst for search of one’s true love must never die..
can we talk something else………..
lets it essence remains intact…
experience the ”ehsaas”………..
how can I when you dont love her
and how can she when she will come to know that I dont live her..
yar its not possible to adjust so easily
milne to de pelhai koi tab he to pata chalega wats the ehsaas is lyk?? aabhi tak to pata he nai hai kaisa hota hai..
there are somethings that can only be understood thru experience… i agree wid astha….
true…
dere are lot of things which we learn through experience..
eg love , frienship,facing harships…
but for experience in love.. is the most difficult one.. u never knoe that u have found a right one or not… its just u keep on experimenting .
ya true, you cant judge your love..
some people do a lot even when they know that they will not get anything in return and few are there who wants to know everything before they start loving…
its very simple to understand dat way………if u want to be happy in lyf u have to choose any one f d ways ………..
mai bhi bolu kuch …………….
lo bol diya
nai yar,,
you cant restrict our choice to these two ways..
there are others ways also..
love her, understand her, and do sacrifice for her, and sometimes this sacrifice can be ur LOVE.. agar us ke happyness k liye you have to leave her, then go for it…
i think most of this are ready to accept the 2nd point…
ya i agree… somewhat with the 2nd thought…
this is a endless discussion… we need to accept that everybody has different thought about love.. and everyone wants to experience it in his/her own way..
bas yar ye he to prob hai, tum sab EVERY word ke peche he rahoge.. u do wat others do.. y so???
aapna khud ke kutch views nai hai kya??
everyone has different view.. no one is ready to agree the view posted by others… i just said this is an endless discussion…
nai hai if we do not argue..
once i posted that leave the argument and post wat do you fell about love..
but none responded, sab ko ladai he karne me maza aata hai ;(
everyone is trying to prove his/her point..
thats it… no one will undestand thats for sure…
so keep it to yourself..
acha how many of u search for love… ??
search
ha google pe kiya tha na…..
assignment banae ke liye.. :p
you cant search it yar, you get it if you deserves it..
tou kya upar se aayegi kya koi.. dhundhne tou padegi hi… na anand bahi..
bhai tu search karta reh..
neither you can search it, nor you can make yourself to love someone..
ye to gift hai, agar aap ko ho gaya kisi se to badi baat hai warna is selfish duniya me pyaar to torch le ke search karne ja ye ga tab bhi nai milega..
kehne ko sab bolte hai ke pyaar hai un ko, but they never feel that eshaash of love.
kishmat wale hote hai vo log jo pyaar karte bhi hai or un ko pyaar mil bhi jata hai.. haquiqat me to kabhi dekha nai but khawab bade pyaare hai is ke..
Pyar pehli baarish ki boondon main hai
Pyar khilte phoolon ki khushboo main hai
Pyar dhalte sooraj ki kirano main hai
Pyar har naye din ki umeed hai
Pyar khwaab hai,Pyar jeet hai
Pyar pyaar hai,Pyar geet hai
Pyar do jahano ka sangeet hai
Pyar har khushi,Pyar zindagi
Pyar tishnagi,Pyar bandagi hai
Pyar sang chalty hawaon main hai
Pyar in barasti ghataon main hai
Pyar doston ki wafaon main hai
haath uttha ke jo maangi gayi hai dua
Pyar ka asar un duaon main hai
i have learned from dis that u cant force sumbody to love u , u can be with him/her as a frnd but cant force,,,,
so always stay happy bcoz u wish that sum1 is happy,, god bless her…..
acc. to vote poll not a single vote … alot of single’s here
i dont think there is anything like true love….!!! its a hypothetical concept…..aur bahut kuch hai life main karne k liye…
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aditi aap ke sochne se thodi kutch hota.. and it might not be important to us but jo karta hai us k liye to sab se jada important ye he hota hai…
harry – bhai force bhi kiya ja sakta hai..
actually love me koi condition he nai lagte hai..
true love doesnt exist….n if it does ……then y v say ki out of say hundred ppl only 1 manages to find true love……….its just an infatuation…
“Love has the power of making you believe what you would normally treat with the deepest suspicion.”
Love is Sharing
Believe me when I say that this is one of the most important ingredients of love. It is important to open ones heart and share – pain, joy, success and failure, it really does not matter, as long as the heart is clear. Love is being honest and knowing that the other person feels the same way too, it is sharing and losing ones inhibitions and knowing that the person on the other side will never be judgmental.
Love is Talking
Yes, love is talking. It is about speaking, telling and sharing. After some time people restrict their conversations to discussing bills, children and pets. This is a sure indicator of things going down hill. Bring the spark back by starting a conversation.
Love is Spending Time Together
A few minutes spent together everyday keeps the boredom away. I just made this up right now, but it is because I feel there is nothing like time invested in a relationship…believe me, it pays! Heavy work schedules take up much time and effort, so it is important to get things into perspective.
Love is Faithfulness
To love means to be true, to love unconditionally means to give with all your heart to one, and only one. Love is when you realize that he/she is the best thing that has happened to you and you want to cherish that person and the moments spent with him/her till death do you part.
Love is Being Friends
Love is being friends with each other. Enjoying simple pleasures in life like shopping, catching a movie or watching television at home, apart from a host of other things that “Friends” normally do!
Love is Looking Together in the Same Direction
This may sound clichéd, but it is true…love is having the same goals and taking steps in that direction to make them come true.
I would like to end with one of my favorite quotations…
“Love is the flower of life, and blossoms unexpectedly
and without law, and must be plucked where it is found,
and enjoyed for the brief hour of its duration.”
u hv explained everything…….having good experiance……
Miss Neha, you surely have opened your heart out(i hope you haven’t copied pasted,have you?), indeed you can be an excellent counsellor.
Though i would be pleased to hear your divine thoughts on one more thing, ‘Love is lust’
Therez nothing like LOVE
@kushendra – love is pure. “Love is lust” not a valid statement, so wat to comment
)
havvy!
i think its ol bout crush……… Nd ol glossy looks dats ol grlz gvs us…… U jst stuck wid dat grl……. Nd find a way to know nd impress hr…….. Isnt it????????????
there is a difference between crush and love..